i have a life of my own, a family of my own and dreams of my own
that will be relagated to the sidelines so i can
take care of her. 

it is not fair and it makes me so angry. 
then i feel guilty for feeling angry at her...

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This form was submitted:  Aug 20 2007 / 10:31:49
 marie clare

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growing up i just thought she was a slob, now that i am an
adult i can see it is much more than that. 

she married a fellow hoarder
and they just lost their house because they were as irresponsible with
their $ as they were with their belongings.  in her case at least, her
childish behavior has been the real culprit over the years as she has
refused to be responsible for much at all. 

now, i am the adult child who
will be forced to pay the consequences for her actions.  maybe i am
selfish, but i resent that.  i should not have to pay the price for her
lifetime of irresponsibility. 

i have a life of my own, a family of my
own and dreams of my own that will be relagated to the sidelines so i can
take care of her.  it is not fair and it makes me so angry.  then i
feel guilty for feeling angry at her, it is a terrible feeling that she
has given me to carry around.  why did she do this???????????