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Compulsive Hoarding
Is A Family Problem
Together, we hope to find some solutions.
This is a community for all adult family members
and friends of people who hoard.
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the secret lives of hoarders
01:00 AM EDT on Sunday, June 1, 2008
By Eric Adler
McClatchy Newspapers
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Tucson Citizen
NORA AVERY-PAGE
Cronkite News Service
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Posted by Donna on Wednesday, April 23, 2008 @ 15:01:06 ICT (117 reads)
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| General News: Waist-high clothing piles and other hoarding issues |
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Waist-high clothing piles and other hoarding issues: Selectmen study issue as vote on anti-blight approaches
By Brian Messenger
Staff writer
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| General News: Woman in squalid house pleads no contest to neglect |
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Monday, March 24, 2008
Woman in squalid house pleads no contest to neglect
Jennifer Chambers / The Detroit News
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Posted by Donna on Friday, March 21, 2008 @ 22:06:56 ICT (63 reads)
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There is a really good article on MSNBC.com today about Hoarding, and they are also asking for stories from those who have had a first hand look at hoarding. (They also mention the COH site & HelpingHoarders.com)
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Posted by Donna on Tuesday, March 11, 2008 @ 14:03:20 ICT (113 reads)
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Mar. 04, 2008
Eliminating clutter helps clear mind
By PATTI GHEZZI - Cox News Service
While helping her elderly mother move two years ago, Melanie Whitworth was taken aback by how much
stuff her mother had accumulated and the emotional toll of sorting through it.
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| General News: Son investigated for elder abuse in filthy house case |
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Thursday, February 28, 2008
Son investigated for elder abuse in filthy house case
Inspectors found pile of cat feces, dead cats, inoperative plumbing
and winged insects in Villa Park home.
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| General News: Delta Burke Is Not In Psych Ward, Just In A Clinic |
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CNN.com
BOSTON, Massachusetts (AP) -- If you're sad and shopping, watch your wallet: A new study shows people's spending judgment goes out the window when they're down, especially if they're a bit self-absorbed.
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Posted by Donna on Friday, February 08, 2008 @ 20:09:36 ICT (109 reads)
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TMZ show interview with Delta Burke.
She said:
*Been hoarding since she was 18
*It's a comfort to her...like she guesses the way food comforts people
*Says she keeps even "stupid things"
*She has 27 storage units
*She is learning why she does it, she doesn't understand *why* she
does it but it is very clear that
SHE HATES HATES HATES BEING A HOARDER.
*She was trying not to cry as she has never talked to anyone about it
before but said "I know this is what I need to do to get better."
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Clutter blindness
Gary Kemper, Sydney general manager of the rubbish clearance company 1800-GOT-JUNK?, says many hoarders have a deep-rooted reason for never disposing of their possessions.
"People become blind to the clutter," Kemper says. "They literally don't see it in front of them."
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Posted by Donna on Monday, January 14, 2008 @ 00:22:40 ICT (106 reads)
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The New York Times, 1/1/2008
...But experts say the problem with all this is that many people are going about it in the wrong way. Too often they approach clutter and disorganization as a space problem that can be solved by acquiring bins and organizers.
Measures like these “are based on the concept that this is a house problem,” said David F. Tolin, director of the anxiety disorders center at the Institute of Living in Hartford and an adjunct associate professor of psychiatry at Yale.
“It isn’t a house problem,” he went on. “It’s a person problem. The person needs to fundamentally change their behavior.”
Ms. Johnson says she often sees a link between her client’s efforts to get organized and weight loss. “I think someone decides, ‘I’m not going to live like this anymore. I’m not going to hold onto my stuff, I’m not going to hold onto my weight,’” she said. “I don’t know that one comes before the other. It’s part of that same life-change decision.”...
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Fri Dec 28 2007
He did evict the woman. He did so on the advice of the health department which, acting on a complaint from other tenants, found her one-bedroom apartment infested with bedbugs. Officials ordered the apartment sealed, the contents destroyed and the entire block fumigated.
The problem, Bibik said, is that the woman has a mental illness that causes her to "dumpster dive" -- that is to scour trash bins for anything of interest -- and to stockpile her findings in her home...
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Posted by Donna on Saturday, December 29, 2007 @ 16:18:53 ICT (111 reads)
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“It’s sad. Hoarding really affects the person’s self-esteem, more than it should,” said Tim Grove, Ph.D., a licensed counseling psychologist. “There are lots of disorders a person can have, but with something like hoarding, they feel almost as if they’re doing something immoral. It’s not like if you have cancer or multiple sclerosis, which are more acceptable diseases.”
Grove, an independent contractor, works at St. Louis Behavioral Medicine Institute and at an agency in Columbia, Mo. With therapy, support groups and medication, he said, “most hoarders get better, and some people get quite a bit better.”...
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Posted by Donna on Tuesday, December 18, 2007 @ 21:01:47 ICT (133 reads)
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Goals of therapy for hoarders, health/fitness-The Oklahoman-Friday, November 30, 2007
-- Avoid repeatedly asking: "Why? Why do I hoard?" Recovery doesn't require an answer to "Why?" Remember: obsessive-compulsive disorder is not logical. Ask instead: "What is my objective? How can I best get there?"
-- Develop an ability to tolerate intense emotions. Rate intensity of feelings on a scale of 1 to 10. Observe changes in intensity of feelings. Notice that feelings come and go; saving things is not required to reduce anxiety.
-- Only Handle It Once. Deal with each item only once as soon as it comes into the house, instead of storing items to check more thoroughly later. Do not retrieve items from the trash when second thoughts raise doubt.
-- Simplify decision-making. Limit choices, (e.g., keep, recycle, sell, give or throw away). Make clear decision rules for each choice, (e.g., keep only 10 plastic bags, dispose of or recycle others). Use broad categories instead of many specific ones. Accept that others, including experts, may do things differently.
-- Buy and keep "just enough." Sales will be repeated. If you run out, it is not a disaster. Keep items you use, dispose of others.
-- Focus on functionality. Select a target, for example, an area such as the kitchen or a corner of a room. "Excavate" the target by throwing away and organizing items. Maintain clear space. Use the cleared space only for its intended purpose.
-- Seek assistance or another opinion. Hoarders have a hard time determining what is "important vs. unimportant," "just enough vs. excessive" or "necessary vs. inconsequential." Seek guidance from a friend or professional. Persevere with your goals. -Source: www.anxietyandstress.com
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"It's something that clearly can develop over a long period of time.
It takes on a life of its own and becomes a whole way of coping with the world," D'Asta said.
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"All that junk adds weight, and that affects fuel economy, especially in town, with its stop-and-go driving," said Bruce Jones, professor of automotive engineering technology at Minnesota State University, Mankato. The heavier a car is, the more force or torque is needed to get it going again once it's stopped, he explained.
And, in turn, it takes more effort to stop a moving junk car. The brakes won't last as long.
Inefficient as it is, it's not illegal to drive a clutter-filled vehicle, according to Sgt. Don Marose of the Minnesota State Patrol - at least, until the mess is high enough to interfere with seeing out the windows.
More important, however, is safety. The stuff inside cars can become "weapons" in a crash, and not just in a roll-over or a serious collision. Hitting something at 30 miles per hour might stop your car, but it doesn't stop all the stuff inside from flying around. If anything strikes an occupant, it can severely injure and possibly kill them, Marose said.
In addition, when the airbag deploys, it comes out at about 200 miles per hour. Any object in its way is ejected at nearly the same speed, with the same consequences, he added.
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| General News: Clutter-holic pack rats are coming out of the woodwork- |
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Clutter-holic pack rats are coming out of the woodwork-Compulsive hoarding can damage lives
November 25, 2007-BY ERIC ADLER-MCCLATCHY NEWSPAPERS
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Thursday, 22 November 2007,
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 Talk about today's show!Clutter Genetics-Original Air Date: June 8, 2007
Did you inherit your messy, disorganized way of living from your parents or is it something you picked up on your own? To discuss the topic of "clutter genetics," Peter talks with Dr. Francis Collins, a leading geneticist and author of the book The Language of God: A Scientist Presents Evidence for Belief, and Dr. David Tolin, an expert on compulsive hoarding and author of Buried in Treasures: Help for Compulsive Acquiring, Saving, and Hoarding.... go to site...
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His story is helping others, and now Barry Kopulos is sharing it with a new audience.
A hoarder as a result of obsessive compulsive disorder, the security guard had filled his one-bedroom apartment with thousands of items including books, magazines and newspapers. In late September an eviction notice forced him to clean house, a tough process he has documented and eventually hopes to make a film about. He will begin the process by telling his story tomorrow at OCD Centre Manitoba Inc. ...
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Holding on to the past
Hoarding a harmless hobby for most, but can lead to health problems, shame
10/18/07: TimesDaily.com, Alabama
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"There are a lot of people who are real information junkies and they're very bright people, very interested in many things, which is sometimes part of the problem," said Steketee. "They love information and are unwilling to give it up in its physical manifestation."
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Posted by Donna on Thursday, October 18, 2007 @ 14:07:28 ICT (185 reads)
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