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Interventions/Legal: Canada-Eviction Notice Cleans Up Act 
Interventions/Clean-Outs

  Tue, September 25, 2007
Eviction notice cleans up act

'OCD hoarder' goes into throw-out mode

By SHANNON VANRAES, SUN MEDIA




Barry Kopulos in his downtown apartment. (Brian Donogh, Sun Media)

Most people would be horrified to receive an eviction notice, but for Barry Kopulos it was exactly what he needed to clean up his act.

Until a few days ago, Kopulos's downtown apartment was filled with thousands of magazines, newspapers, books and other items he hoarded as a result of obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD).

"A couple of years ago I thought I might just be ... a pack rat," he said yesterday.

Since then he has sought a professional opinion, which confirmed he's more than just a collector.

"I can't have friends over. I lose things. You have a very strong attachment to things," said Kopulos. "I was almost killed by a pile of books that fell over."

Kopulos said he wasn't angered by the eviction notice he received. He said he understands ceiling-high piles of papers are a fire hazard and that landlords need to protect their interests.

Kopulos said he told his landlord about his disorder.

"You're not dealing with someone who is a lazy bastard ... I'm an OCD hoarder. I was very open," he said.

With the help of friends and family, Kopulos is now working to rid his one-bedroom apartment of everything he doesn't need.

So far he's filled two dumpsters and a storage locker with garbage and items he just doesn't have room for, even taking a few days off work to make sure he beats the eviction deadline and is able to stay in the apartment he has called home for the last 10 years.

Kopulos said his landlord has been accommodating, giving him additional time to finish the cleanup.

The security guard, nearing his 50th birthday, said the cleanup has given him a fresh start and he hopes others with OCD will take heart from his experience.

"It's a very serious issue," said Kopulas. "I'm coming out of the closet, in a way."

He also noted he has been documenting his experience on video and intends to make a sort of documentary about his struggle to keep his apartment.

"Hoarding may be a symptom of OCD," said Dr. Michael Stambrook, a Winnipeg psychologist, adding the anxiety disorder is based around activities and compulsions used to lessen anxiety.

"It is under-treated and under-diagnosed ... something that can lead to life-threatening behaviour."

Stambrook said cognitive therapy is often used to treat the disorder and medication is a possibility as well.

However, the severity of OCD will vary throughout a person's life.


http://winnipegsun.com/News/Winnipeg/2007/09/25/4523556-sun.html


Posted on Saturday, September 29, 2007 @ 02:52:22 ICT by Donna
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Re: Canada-Eviction Notice Cleans Up Act (Score: 1)
by Lou on Sunday, October 14, 2007 @ 06:38:27 ICT
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This is just the kind of article that opens minds and hearts. I grew up with either extreme hoarding or extreme cleaning (Dad, Mom, grandparents, etc.) and it was like living in a private hell. Along with this were several types of characteristics of mental health issues that I never knew existed until I grew into adulthood and was forced to confront my 'baggage' from my childhood.

Funny enough, it was being on my own as a single mom with 2 small children moved away from the 'mess' that saved me (and most likely my kids) because I had to rely on my community, neighbors and colleagues to survive. The old Ann Landers adage that putting real estate between yourself and the problems can be very helpful! I learned to become more accepting of others offers of help, as well got into a wonderful counseling program.

Consequently, my family became more and more negative about newly discovered positive healthy attitude. I learned to manage my belongings, change my behavior and collect 'friendships' instead of more and more belongings.

I am now helping several families to 'clean-up' and get past the 'hoarding' that jeopardizes their lives. This website is really a wonderful way for us to help others and open the 'closet' of shame, guilt and silence that we learned as children. NO MORE SECRETS!





 
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